Learn to do good, seek justice. Correct the oppressor. Defend the rights of the FATHERLESS child. - Isaiah 1:17

12.28.17 - Complaint to jirc re: massey

What would you do?

Your ex manipulates your daughter to believe that you don't care and you don't love her.  Then she does everything she can to reinvent the child, including change her name and give her a new father...

How can that even happen?  When you love somebody so much, how can they be convinced of the exact opposite?

Emotional manipulation of a parent.

That's what happened to my daughters, one by one as they became 13 years old - like clockwork. 


Parents do this because of their own severe childhood trauma that involves a traumatic separation with a parent.

Not one ounce of compassion or concern for the fact that a child NEEDS a good father.  And the courts agreed.

A few months after Anjelica was alienated in 2009, my children's mother meets a man (on April 9, 2010) just weeks out of maximum security prison (released Feb. 21, 2010) and invites him to live with my THREE daughters at their home.  I had 50/50 custody of the girls for 5 years prior to this.

A month after they meet, my ex and her career criminal man, get married (May 12, 2010).

10 days later, the couple go on a honeymoon for a week - WITH MY 13 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER - and out to meet his family in Tennessee.  I protest and I am told to 'mind my own business, cause they were just having fun.'

Within weeks, she let's her new husband's 18 year old nephew live with my girls as well. 

I beg my ex to have the man live apart from my children, for awhile - for the safety of my children - given his record, and given how long she knew him.

I am shut down.

In June 2010, I go to court to get full custody of all three girls.  Considering her reckless behavior and alienating Anjelica, I almost felt sorry for the mother, because she was sure to lose custody...

That is where I learn about the complete upside down, corrupt, kangaroo court called 'Family Court'.

I ask the Guardian ad Litem to recommend to the judge that my children be protected.  I provided him with the criminal record I had found on the man. 

I subpoenaed Hadsell's probation officer to testify in custody court about his past.  He did not cooperate.

I asked WH's ex-wife Michelle, and her father, Bob, to testify about WH's violent and illegal behavior.  They do not cooperate.

Within a couple months of meeting Mr. Hadsell, Anjelica is calling this man 'dad' on her Facebook profile.  How could her mother encourage such a relationship with a man the child just met, while she is estranged from the father she knows and loves?

My custody was changed by Judge Joseph Massey, from 50/50 to ZERO of Anjelica Marie.  My other two daughters remained 50/50.

This is great news for the mother and her new husband.  He fraudulently adopts Anjelica 2 years later, without my awareness.  I live 5 miles away and I try to be around her whenever I can, despite the fact she is no longer calling me daddy.

But away she goes.  I was ERASED.

Bet ya think it can't happen to you?  THINK AGAIN.  It happens all the time.


On March 2. 2015 - five years after this man moved in with my children - Anjelica went missing.  After 39 days, she was found dead in back of an abandoned house, buried in a shallow grave.

Her (fraudulently) adopted dad's GPS went right there to the abandoned house on March 4.  

Much more evidence has been brought to light, implicating him, but almost 3 years later and NOT ONE PERSON HAS HAD ANY ACCOUNTABILITY!

She is known by his last name and the mother proudly proclaims her name as AJ HADSELL, named for the man the should never have been around her - EVER!

You probably think I am exaggerating.  Actually, you haven't heard a fraction of how unjust, absurd and heartbreaking this has been.  

And most of it is documented.  It's not just some story that I am telling.  It's the ugly truth, and the truth sets us free, now matter how much it hurts.

Judge Joseph P. Massey, who was also the Chief Judge of Norfolk Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court at the time, COMPLETELY ignored EVERY ASPECT of Virginia's Best Interest Law (§ 20-124.3.) (see complaint on this page).  In section 9, it clearly states "the court SHALL consider any history of family abuse", which is defined by § 16.1-228 as "any act involving violence, force, or threat that results in bodily injury or places one in reasonable apprehension of death, sexual assault, or bodily injury and that is committed by a person against such person's family or household member."


6.19.2004 - letter granting adoption from bio dad

Anjelica was legally my 'step daughter', and unfortunately she did not know her biological father, or that I wasn't it, until her mother apparently told her without telling me, when she was about 10.  Anjelica knew only ONE father since she was a baby, and she went by ANJELICA HOFFER.  I was DADDY.  Everyone knew that.  But JH felt she had the right to change her daddy whenever JH had better plans.
In 2013, WH adopted Anjelica to 'give her a new name for her driver's license'

Her mother told me she could not get the birth father's permission to adopt.  This email proves otherwise.

8.10-26.17 - emails with guardian charles johnson

During the custody trial, I begged the 'Guardian' - CHARLES JOHNSON - to act to protect my children, and especially Anjelica, from a dangerous situation.  He ignored my communication for two weeks and finally responded when I threatened to complain.  His response was rude and unprofessional and was NOT in the best interest of my children.
Judge Joe Massey DID NOT follow the LAW.
He neglected EVERY SECTION of the 'Best Interest of a Child' state code.
He did NOTHING about the incompetent 'Guardian'.
He did NOTHING to protect my children.
He aligned with an abusive ALIENATOR to ERASE me.

1.4.18 - JIRC response - Massey

If the Judicial Inquiry & Review Board can't do anything about a judge neglecting to follow the law - 

9.21.10 - guardian report for custody dispute

THIS REPORT is full of lies and hear say.  It paints WH as a great guy and me as angry and antagonistic.  He bases his lies off of conversations with Jennifer and her con-man husband.

9.29.10 - Jen questionairre during custody trial

THIS QUESTIONAIRRE is full of lies and exaggerations to take the focus off of her and her reckless behavior letting two men live with my daughters. 
She says she knew WH for two months. 
They met 4.9 - moved in 4.20 - married 5.12.
She says it was the same courtship as with me.
We met online, phone, letters - 11.97
we met in person - 6.98
began living together - 8.98
we married - 8.2000

She calls herself the primary caregiver.  
We split all time and responsibilities down the middle, except for the first year of our separation, while she was getting on her feet and I had the children much more often.
I was involved in EVERYTHING, from school work and activities to extracurricular stuff and school, and providing healthy food and their own rooms and beds and good clothes and a safe place to live and love and attention.
She became primary as she stole the children one by one....

She says my anger is why Anjelica chose to stop being my daughter.
I was angry AT THE MOTHER about her stealing my oldest daughter and putting all of my girls in danger.
I did get angry at Anjelica at first, because she was getting distant and then stayed with her mom.  That was my mistake, because in ACTUALITY, it was the MOTHER (and her weasel husband), who manipulated Anjelica's mind & heart....

There is NO REASON to erase a loving and attentive and very active and responsible father from a child's life.


10.2000 - subpoena to hadsell probation officer & response

Probation Officer Tomas Ramirez did not inform me when WH moved in with my children.  Mr. Ramirez would NOT testify in the custody hearings about WH's history because of cited legalities, despite WH's OBVIOUS danger to children.

    Wes hadsell criminal record prior to 2010

In 1999, when Mr. Hadsell was 20, he was convicted of kidnapping his girlfriend who had just turned 16.
After serving 3 years in prison in North Carolina for that along with burglary, breaking and entering, and fraud, he moved to Ohio and married a woman.

In Aug. 2005 he allegedly raped, strangled, and kidnapped his wife while she had a restraining order against him for Dom. Violence.  He took her across the country, robbing along the way.  There was a nationwide manhunt for him and he was finally caught, after a high-speed car chase involving multiple law enforcement agencies and a helicopter.  He wrecked the car, injuring his wife and he was later found hiding in a field.

Later in 2005, a grand jury determined he likely raped, assaulted, and kidnapped his wife.  However, he was tried and convicted in federal court for bank robbery and the state charges were not pursued.  His wife immediately divorced him after the interstate ordeal.

2005 grand jury indictment for rape, strangulation,
striking, & kidnapping 

While in prison, Wesley Hadsell committed dozens of serious crimes, including stabbing a man in the face multiple times, threatening officers, sex crime, and bizarre rebellious behavior.  He had a serious drug problem and had been know to transport and sell large quantities of drugs.  He is known to have Aryan Nation affiliation.   Court documents point out serious mental health issues, including ideations with death and suicide.  On his eyelids are the tattoos, "GAME OVER", indicating the game is only over when he is dead in the coffin.
On February 17, 2010, he was released from maximum security federal prison in Victorville, CA.  He had spent his last two years in solitary confinement.

It's been almost 3 years and we still wait for justice.  ALL evidence points directly at WH.  
- He broke into a house to ‘find’ Anjelica’s jacket while she was missing.  It’s believed he was planting the jacket to frame Anjelica’s friend.  
- He 'discovered' multiple items of her clothing along a road 25 miles away.  
- He likely saw Anjelica last.  
- GPS puts him at the location her body was found 60 miles away, close to where he was working.   To see how twisted he is, here he is crying and staring at the camera

Within 2 weeks of her missing, WH was arrested for B & E, threats & Poss. of Ammo.  In late 2016 he was convicted for the ammo and sentenced to 20 yrs in fed. prison, as a Career Armed Criminal.
Just after his federal conviction in 2016, Ohio pressed charges for the 2005 rape, strangulation, and kidnapping of his wife, something the family courts in Norfolk were fully aware of in 2010, when I was trying to protect my daughters from this man.

WHis still on trial in Ohio.

Charles Johnson, the attorney Guardian ad Litem, practiced as a GAL until 2015 and still practices as an attorney.
Both of these two people need their BAR license revoked and need to be banned from making decisions regarding the well-being of others, especially children.

Judge Joseph Massey is still a family court judge in Norfolk, VA despite complaints that I have filed against him.


Wesley Hadsell's criminal history

{This entire manuscript can be found at www.Pacer.gov. or clicking the link below}

"Mr. Hadsell's criminal record began when he was 12 years old. And before this current offense, he has about 14 juvenile adjudications, or adult felony convictions..."

"He has not had just second and third chances, but fourth and fifth, and all the way down the line."

"at every opportunity, he has shown complete disrespect for the law... and for the safety and the rights and the property of others."

[other crimes listed at age 12 and 16]

"..at age 17 indecent phone calls. You served approximately two months in jail."

"As an adult, you have at age 17 the statutory burglary, and you served approximately one year and seven months."

"Age 19, a failure to appear."

"Age 19, another failure to appear."

"And I want to make this record, because the crimes escalate as he gets older."

"In 1996 there's a statutory burglary conviction."

"In 1998, felonious restraint. The defendant restrained a 16 year-old woman and transported her in a car. He violated probation by continuing to contact her and, in fact, impregnated her, after which that restriction was lifted. While on probation, he had violations for grand theft auto and a number of other conditions of probation."

"He has a child with the victim of his forcible restraint conviction. The easy way to put it is that relationship is strained. He's arrears in his child support. She advised she began dating you when she was 14, got pregnant."

"1998, breaking and entering."

"1999, second degree burglary."

"The probation violations after this conviction included charges for felonious assault, domestic violence, rape, and kidnapping. Those charges were dismissed without prejudice, and they came out of an incident that I'll describe later in which the defendant allegedly kidnapped, strangled, struck and then raped his estranged wife multiple times. Those were charges in Ohio, and they have been, I'm happy to report, reinstated, and he'll face those charges down the road."

"In 1999, multiple convictions for forgery."

"The details of his first marriage and the very disturbing allegations from his first wife are detailed in Paragraph 70. I'm not going to hit every part of it here. It is enough to say she reports a vicious, multi-day kidnapping, multiple rapes, punctuated by violence and threats to kill member of her family if she did not comply."

"She realized that the marriage was done. And you had stolen checks. She explained that the conduct in 2005 began when you contacted her to meet regarding retrieving property, you guys began to argue over the divorce, and you hit her in the face with an open hand, you started to push her to the back bedroom, pushed her on the bed and slapped her. When she refused to have sex, you began strangling her while lying on top of her. She reported that she was resistant and frozen with fear.  She advised that you..... She explained she pressed charges on the night the offense occurred. A day or two later, she came home from work and you surprised her by coming out of the garage. She attempted to call the police, but you grabbed her from behind and twisted her neck, pushed her into the bedroom, grabbed some clothes from a drawer and threw the clothes into a bag, forced her into a car and drove off. And you told her different lies in and attempt to justify kidnapping her. During the time she was kidnapped, you would hit, strangle and rape her. She tried to walk away once when you were asleep, but you awoke and caught her. Threatened to kill members of her immediate and extended family or anyone else she tried to get involved. She reported it was almost 10 months later before you were charged with the conduct. She had spent her time trying to heal. She's indicated she was traumatized and not strong enough to go through with the charges."

"In 2005 he moves to the federal system for bank robbery. He gave a teller a note saying that he was armed. He got away. He was later found at a rest stop in Illinois. Fled by car. Was later captured, incarcerated."

"You're incarcerated, and then you're cited for threatening bodily harm three times, setting a fire twice, assault, interfering with a security device twice, destruction of property three times, possessing intoxicants twice."

"...other arrests that were either nolle prossed or dismissed or you were found not guilty. And they were for either B&E, contributing to the delinquency of a minor, reckless driving, aggressive fleeing police, driving on a suspended, felonious assault, rape, domestice violence, obstruction of justice..."

".. it's a path of not just a lack of concern for the law,... but actively flouting the law and violating the rights of others, really at every opportunity."

"There's a history of mental health issues, but also a history of Mr. Hadsell saying what he thinks is going to be in his benefit when it comes time for sentencing."

"Likewise, he claims a history of drug use, including marihuana and cocaine, but he also said that when he was in federal court the last time, he made up claims about drug abuse to qualify for a drug program that would take time off of his sentence, willfully providing false information to the Court."

"Another serious concern for the Court is your mental health history. It's extensive and it's poor and it's troubling..."

"In 2005, records from the Delaware County Sheriffs Office show that you attempted to hang yourself in your cell. ... and the clinician indicated there may be a manipulative aspect to your suicidal ideation relating to possible consequence of this discovery of your escape plan. You were diagnosed with..." [pg 58]

"..you said, "I don't like being told what to do. I have 70 or more prison charges for stabbing a child molester, setting fires, assault and disobeying orders and other things... I'm not sure I can be helped.""

"..you stated you have many issues to address, and you want to "get all of the violence out of my head.""

"You stated that if anything caused you to be rearrested, you would likely kill yourself or die trying to escape."

"That is something you shared in 2010."

"You were asked about your numerous tattoos of skulls and death and you stated "Because I'm fascinated with death."

"You were asked about your tattoos "Game" and "Over" on your eyelids and remarked, "When I die, people will see that all of the bullshit is over.""

"And then they diagnosed you with..." [pg 59]

Parental alienation

Dr. Craig Childress describes it as a dysfunction in the "Attachment System" of a person.  This comes from serious childhood trauma involving separation from a parent.

Personality Disorders develop to help a person compensate.  Dysfunctional behavior ensues.

Those behaviors include an unhealthy alliance with their child, (usually the oldest FIRST), to the point of projecting their deep-seated anxieties into the child's heart and mind.  At some point, if a 'trigger' is set off, that disturbed parent turns against the other parent, as an unconscious reflex against abandonment.  That target parent is then painted as the enemy and once this has happened, it is only a matter of time before the children take on the exact same emotional disturbance.  This is what psychologists call 'splitting behavior', where things are black and white - either for the parent or against that parent.  The child has no choice but to comply or face the wrath of the irrational broken parent.  The wrath includes mockery, withholding love, outbursts of anger, and putting them in the 'enemy zone'.  In the process, the children lose their identity and are afraid to express empathy or love, especially for the targeted parent.

This is not as rare as you would hope.  There are many online support groups filled with thousands of stories of tragedy and broken-hearted parents.

If your child is showing signs of rejecting you as a parent, a lack of empathy, haughty or judgmental attitude, and being treated like an adult by the other parent, splitting behavior, irrational accusations about how you treat them or the food you give them, and is inappropriately concerned for the well-being of the other parent, you may be the target of Parental Alienation by a parent with severe unresolved attachment system trauma.  That parent will fit the criteria for Borderline and/or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  This is CHILD ABUSE.  Dr. Craig Childress, says that the damage from this kind of abuse is second only to sexual incest.  He says the damage is greater than physical abuse and even abuse by an untreated schizophrenic  or bi-polar parent.  The DSM V codifies this abuse as "Pathogenic Parenting" (v995.51).
"Their evil deeds have no limit;  they do not seek justice... in the case of the FATHERLESS."  - Jeremiah 5:28